People show up to warn of the hidden dangers but after listening intently we ignore them because......that won't happen to us.
And then it does happen and we ....... get over it because that's part of being human. We want to learn on our own. Quit worrying about people saying - I told you so. Who cares that they told us so - we did it our way and now we won't have to learn that again.
At least we're living.